Female Chief, Chieftain or Laird

In terms of forms of address, there is no separate feminine equivalent for a lady who is a Chief, Chieftain or Laird, and a woman has exactly the same status as a man, except that one does not write to her by her estate only (eg The Chisholm).

The husband of a female Chief, Chieftain or Laird derives no title from his wife, but an eldest son of a female Chief would have the same style "younger" as does the eldest son of a male Chief.

How to address a Female Chief, Chieftain or Laird

The recommended (social) style of address is as follows:

Beginning of letter Dear Mrs (or Madam) Mackintosh of Mackintosh
End of letter Yours sincerely
Envelope Mrs (or Madam) Mackintosh of Mackintosh (or appropriate title)
Verbal address Mrs (or Madam) Mackintosh
Invitation Mrs (or Madam) Mackintosh of Mackintosh
Description in conversation Mrs (or Madam) Mackintosh of Mackintosh
List of Directors or Patrons Mrs (or Madam) Mackintosh of Mackintosh
Place card Mrs (or Madam) Mackintosh of Mackintosh

 

 

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